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BLACK MAN, BLACK MAN WHEREFORE ART THOU BLACK MAN

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THE BLACK MAN IN 2018  BETTER GET ON HIS GAME. THE BLACK WOMAN IS ALREADY ON HERS.  The black women as a whole, in The United States, are getting themselves together, While it seems like the black man as a whole, in the United States, is lagging behind, aloof, lost, wandering in the wilderness, adrift, unfocused. While the black woman is throwing up their hands and saying "fuck it, were moving on without you blackman. You've held us up long enough." The black woman has dropped the lifeline to the black man, shrugs her shoulders, throws up her hands and thus gives up on black men. She looks back over her shoulder as she watches the black man slowly drown in his own stupidity, lack of direction, focus and leadership. If we black man as a whole in the United States don't get our shit together, then we're gone. a lost cause.
   
Okay black man, lets talk. It is now 2018 and it's time that we, Black men living in America as a whole,  get our shit together by doing the following:
1) Make sure you are employed, self-employed or have your own business.
2) If you have children living outside your home make sure you take care of them both physically and financially. Second to you, your children should always come first. Money isn't everything.  Spending time with your means a lot to them and their mom.
3) If you are having to pay child support, pay it on time. If you don't have a job, do something.  Some money is better than no money.
4) If you are behind on your child support, then do what you can to pay it up. The kids and their mom need that financial help.
5) Save your money and stop wasting it on fast women, cars and alcohol and Jordans. Take that money and invest in yourself and your future.
6) If you are living with your mama, girlfriend, sister, or any female, GET OUT. Find your own place to either rent or buy Maintain your freedom and do not move any females, including a girlfriend or friend in with you.
7) If you are in a bad relationship, GET OUT.
8) If you are in a bad marriage, GET OUT and refer back to #2
9) If you have a special woman, girlfriend, fiancée or a friend with benefits, and she's your ride or die.      
Make sure you take care of her as she will be there and take care of you.
10) You should always come 2nd to your kids only. Take care of yourself both mentally and physically.  
Don't let no man or woman, the lack of money stress you out. Exercise regularly and get that medical check-up. Remember if you have children,or grandkids, they need their dad or grandpa.
11) If you have an estranged relationship with your kids, FIX IT. Don't accept no excuses saying, "She won't let me."  Unless you've been legally banned by the courts, their mom doesn’t have the last word. If she's acting a fool, then you do the legally right thing and take her ass to court. Can you say joint custody?
12) Take care of yourself spiritually. You don't have to believe in or belong to any of man's many organized religion to be spiritual, or to believe there's a Supreme Being. (A God)
13). Set realistic goals for yourself. Visualize where you wanna be in the next two to five years. See it, believe it and then achieve it. 
14) These are a few important points any man should do:
a) know, love and be yourself, 
b) trust and believe in yourself, 
c) have faith in yourself, 
d) when all else fails you'll have yourself. 
e) know that you can achieve anything if you just trust and 
believe, focus and have faith in yourself. Things may not 
come when you want it. But having faith in yourself, any 
and all things are possible.
 
     Trust me men, I can assure you that most women are smart and witty. And they have already set their goals for 2018. And if you don't have your shit gather you are GOOD AS GONE. They are getting tired of your male bullshit. Some women may even look at this list and add something from this list to their list. Never! Never! underestimate a woman. They are smart and witty. When you think they are asleep, their brains are working overtime figuring shit out. Most of it is on how to get paid and what to do
with your sorry ass. BET!   

Jerry Adams  

Writer/Commentator 

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